Use gradle kotlin dsl, catalogs and update versions

gradle.properties

@@ -1,14 +1,7 @@
-apacheSparkVersion=3.3.2
-scalaMajorVersion=2.13
-scalaMinorVersion=10
-scalaTestVersion=3.2.15
-
-mainClass=com.barrelsofdata.sparkexamples.Driver
-projectGroup=com.barrelsofdata.sparkexamples
-projectVersion=1.0
-targetJVM=17
-
+org.gradle.caching=true
+org.gradle.configureondemand=true
 org.gradle.daemon=false
-org.gradle.jvmargs=-Xms128m -Xmx256m -XX:+UseSerialGC -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8
+org.gradle.jvmargs=-Xms256m -Xmx2048m -XX:MaxMetaspaceSize=512m -XX:+UseParallelGC -XX:+HeapDumpOnOutOfMemoryError -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8
+org.gradle.parallel=true
 org.gradle.warning.mode=all
 org.gradle.welcome=never